Book Cover Shoot

Tara Newman with Sela Photography

It was beautiful and cool Sunday night, perfect for the cover shoot we had scheduled for my upcoming divorce recovery book. The weather had been foggy and cool in Tillamook all week, which we agreed might be a cool effect for the pictures, as long as it didn’t rain. I prayed all week it wouldn’t rain.

And it didn’t!

Instead the sun came out mid-morning and it turned out to be a beautiful day. My models, Bob and Heidi Johnson arrived at 5:00, shortly after my daughter and photographer, Tara Newman. Bob tried on his jacket and we agreed it needed a little tailoring for a more fitted look . So I went to work on it, then ironed his white pants to get a crisp crease. He looked like a handsome prince, and was ready to go.

Bob and my husband Kelly munched on dinner and chatted while Tara worked on Heidi’s makeup and hair. She already looked stunning in the blue gown and “glass slippers,” but after Tara curled her hair, applied “stage” makeup, and a little jewelry, Heidi was radiant.

Excited, and full of nervous anticipation, we drove to Debbie Bailey’s lovely property, arriving a couple hours before sunset. She had her horse Disney beautifully groomed and ready for the shoot. Disney stood patiently tethered to a tree with a pool of bubbles at her feet from her bath, her tail a glossy stream of waves from Debbie’s ministrations.

Disney ready to go
Disney and Debbie

The six of us, plus Disney, trooped around the grounds to scout out the best locations. We started in a field of tansy, which Debbie had agreed to leave until after the shoot after I commented on my earlier visit to her property that I liked the color they would add to the photos. (Since tansy, or ragwort, and horses don’t mix, I’d be willing to bet she cleared the area the very next day.)

Kelly assisting with light reflector
Bob and Heidi

Our second location was in a field of dung. Not what you or I would pick as lovely surroundings, but Tara knows her stuff. The lighting was perfect, she said. The sun was beginning to dip behind the trees. The sky overhead was baby blue, streaked with fluffy white clouds. And I know Tara will be able to work her magic with the other stuff so it won’t show.

An unlikely setting

Debbie and I walked all over her property on my first trip out, and I had fallen in love with the wooded areas . They looked story-book perfect. So for our last location, Tara shot inside the forest near the “grandmother” tree. In the semi-dark of the wood, surrounded by every shade of green, Heidi’s dress and Disney’s white coat seemed to glow. Bob’s dark hair and jacket contrasted beautifully. I know all the pictures will be amazing and it will be hard to pick which photo to use for the cover!

In the woods

Since this is a divorce recovery book, I had not wanted a married couple to model for it. But since Bob and Heidi were exactly the “look” I wanted, I decided to ask them both to participate in the shoot. They were willing, even excited, to help. As it turned out, the date Tara had available fell on Bob and Heidi’s anniversary weekend. So Tara took extra pictures of the two, who looked like a prince and princess ready for the ball.

The whole experience was amazing. I’m thankful to all who participated, and to God for blessing us with good weather. (We could have done without the biting no-see-ums as the sun went down though!) I can’t wait to see the edited photos and decide which to use for the front and back covers.

This book has taken me years to write. God has used every moment of that time to do His work in me, taking me deeper into His Word, and holding me through many trials. I am anxious for it to go out into the world to help women suffering the anguish of divorce. God put me back together after my experience. I know He is the only One who can heal a shattered heart and make life new and wonderful again.

Please be praying for those whose hearts are broken and need God’s healing touch, and who you can give a copy of my book to when it is published. They will need your support of love and encouragement. And recommend it to pastors or counselors who might want this book in their library for the women to whom they minister.

Hopefully, my book will be out sometime in September. Until then, I will be hard at work on the final edits and design process. Thanks for coming along for the photo shoot; I hope you had fun seeing behind the scenes.

Retreat Opportunities Coming Up!

Needing to be refreshed this fall?

Check out the retreat for writers on September 24-26, 2021 on my Writer’s Life page. And watch for news soon about the women’s retreat on October 29-31, 2021 , here or on my facebook page. Both will be held at our vacation rental in Black Butte Ranch near Sisters, Oregon.

Contact me if you are interested in learning more or attending either retreat.

Upcoming Schedule

A recent getaway for two on my birthday

I am excited about my schedule in the coming months! Here is what is currently on my calendar. If you have an event (or would LIKE to have an event) you want to talk to me about, please send me a note on my contact link.

I’m especially excited after ten months of traveling back and forth, working long hours on the weekends, and spending lots of money, Kelly and I (plus crew and family) have finished renovating our vacation home in Central Oregon. It started out as a three bedroom 1,160 sq. ft. home to a six bedroom 4,400 sq. ft. home. We’ve been renting it this summer and will soon host friends, family, writers, church groups and others who need a beautiful place to get away and fill up on God’s Word and joyful fellowship.

  • October 12, 2019: Co-leading critique workshop “Critical Spirit or Help from Friends?” with Heidi Gaul at the Oregon Christian Writers Conference @ Rolling Hills Community Church, Tualatin, OR.
  • October 24-26, 2019: Hosting “Table Talk” women’s retreat at our vacation home @ Black Butte Ranch, OR.
  • February, March, or April: Hosting women’s retreat for women’s group from Salem, OR, details TBD.
  • March 27-29, 2020: Hosting Writer’s Retreat @ Black Butte.
  • April 4, 2020: Literary Event at La Tea Da in Tillamook, OR.

I hope to be adding new teaching opportunities over the winter months. In the meantime, I’ll be writing and sharing the JOY of the Lord.

#BethVicewriter #Christianretreats #writersretreat #authorspeaker

In the Valley of Need

I had to stop reading after the first line: “We move from the mountain of glory to the valley of need” (Wiersbe Bible Commentary on Matthew 17:14-21). What a concise description of life! Our mountaintop experiences don’t last forever—we have to go home from summer camp, the mission trip, retreat, conference, or exhilarating moment with God, and go back to everyday life. And we go because that’s where people are who need Jesus.

But I’m like Peter, once I get a glimpse of God’s glory on the Mountain I want to build shelters for everyone and camp out. Why leave?

When Jesus, Peter, James, and John came down the mountain they met a troubled crowd, the other nine disciples, and a distraught father. The disciples had failed to heal this man’s demon possessed son—writhing, foaming, screaming, suicidal. They huddled around their Master embarrassed and confused.

Jesus healed the boy and after the crowd left the disciples asked, “Why couldn’t we drive the demon out?” He had given them authority to drive out evil spirits and heal all kinds of sickness and they had returned from their first mission giddy with success. They were really going places! But this time they were powerless and the demon flaunted their inadequacy by tormenting this boy in front of everyone.

Jesus gave them three reasons why they had failed: they lacked faith (Matthew 17:20); they lacked prayer (Mark 9:29); and they lacked discipline (Matthew 17:21). Had they slacked off when Jesus took the other disciples up the mountain leaving them to minister to the crowd below?

The Bible doesn’t say why their faith waned, but I know how jealousy and comparisons can distract us from focusing on Christ and our mission. We see others getting blessings we wish we could enjoy. Our work suddenly seems like thankless toil. Then it happens, Satan attacks and we find ourselves helpless against the darkness.

This lesson came at just the right time for me, because next week I’ll be heading to the Oregon Christian Writers summer conference. It will be incredible! Keynote speakers, coaching classes, workshops, worship, building friendships with other writers, and hobnobbing with top editors and agents. I look forward to the encouraging Spirit-filled atmosphere. However, it can also be an opportunity for the enemy to drag me and others into jealousy and comparisons. Those of us not currently on the mountaintop with newly published books or articles, could begin to feel jealous.

Yet Jesus’ disciples who work in the valley are no less loved or important than His disciples with Him on the mountain. We all have mountaintop moments as well as valley days, and God is with us in them all. Our mission is not always glorious and inspiring; sometimes it’s just hard work. The important thing, I’m reminded, is to put our faith in God (not our own efforts), and keep on praying and living a life of discipline, so His authority can flow through us.  

There is so much need around us every day. I don’t want to stop the flow of the Spirit because I think I need to be someone else, or somewhere else. Wherever Jesus puts me is right where I’m supposed to be; I just need to be faithful to love those He brings my way and trust His authority to push back the darkness.

#comparisons #jealousyinministry #writinglife #faithprayerandfasting #discouragement

Welcome to my new website!

I’m so excited about this new website. It combines everything from my two blogspot blogs Epiphany and Finding Strength in God in one handy site. Plus it has many added features. The first is the Follow button, which will send you a FREE download not available on my website once you’ve signed up. And it will automatically send a notification to your email whenever I post a new blog, so you won’t have to constantly check to see if I’ve posted anything new.

Here you will be able to read my latest posts about the daily walk of faith and continue growing in your relationship with Jesus Christ. Or, find out more about God and decide whether you’re ready to begin your walk of faith with Him. (Please let me know if you do; I would love to celebrate with and encourage you!)

You will also be able to learn more about my books and click on links that will take you directly to the order pages on Amazon. (How ingenious!)

Also, on the menu bar under About Me, you can hear what I’m up to in the Writing Life, as I post teasers about current projects and my speaking schedule. Hopefully you will pray for me as I strive to honor God in all I do and help others find strength in Him.

Another great feature I’m so excited about is the FREE downloads. I want to help you grow in your knowledge of God and keep growing in every aspect of life–from prayer, to how you speak to others, to practicing a healthy lifestyle.

Thank you for checking in. I hope you will comment on my posts and let me know how you’re doing on this faith journey and what you’re struggling with. We need each other for support and encouragement along the way. So don’t hesitate to speak out.